Are WOMEN to blame for the double-standard regarding ?

Women and men are to blame. Those women that are uninhibited and ually free are somewhat to blame for the entire gender being labeled. And men are to blame because of their views on women. And only certain men. Men treat women and their uality as a conquest. And women act as if they've got some special gift. Back in college, I was a bit of a slut, and boy do I regret it now, I wish I wouldn't have been so ''free'' and thought about what future relationship problems it would initiate. My boyfriend of 3 years and I have the same amount of past ual partners. Of course in his mind, it doesn't matter how many he's been with but how many I'VE been with. Although its the same, its a problem for him.